Jumat, 27 Maret 2026

Right Swipe, Wrong Timing, Perfect Feeling


Zara never believed in love that started with a swipe.

To her, dating apps were just… distractions. A place people went when they were bored, lonely, or curious. Not a place where something real could grow.

And yet, there she was — lying on her bed at 11:48 PM, her room dimly lit by the soft glow of her phone — scrolling through profiles she didn’t really care about.

Swipe left.

Swipe left.

Swipe left.

She sighed.

“Why am I even doing this?” she muttered.

Then —

She paused.

A profile appeared that didn’t look like the others.

No overly edited photos.

No forced poses.

Just a simple picture of a man with glasses standing sideways, wearing a slightly oversized shirt and smiling sweetly at the camera.

His name Robert.

Bio: “Only includes stickers.”

Zara blinked.

“That’s… different.”

Something about it felt honest. Quiet. Real.

Without thinking too much, she swiped right.

It’s a match.

Her eyes widened slightly.

“That was fast.”

She stared at the screen.

No message.

No movement.

Just the quiet notification.

Zara bit her lip.

Normally, she would wait.

But something about this felt… unfinished.

“Okay, fine. I’ll just say something simple.”

She tapped the chat box.

“Hi. Your bio… why only stickers?”

She hovered over the send button for a second.

Then pressed it.

Message sent.

No reply.

Five minutes passed.

Then ten.

Zara sighed and locked her phone. “Of course.”

She turned to the side, pulling her blanket over her shoulder.

Just as she was about to fall asleep —

Ping.

Her phone lit up.

She reached for it.

Robert: “That’s probably the nicest thing anyone has ever said about my lack of social skills.”

Zara smiled.

And just like that —

It started.

~ ~

Their conversations were slow at first.

Careful.

Like two strangers testing the depth of water before stepping in.

Robert wasn’t the type to send long messages.

But he always replied.

And somehow, his short responses carried more meaning than most long conversations Zara had ever had.

Zara: “So you really hate small talk?”
Robert: “Not hate. I just don’t know what to do with it.”
Zara: “Then what do you like talking about?”
Robert: “Things that matter. Or things that feel like they do.”

Zara stared at that message longer than she expected.

“Things that feel like they matter…”

She typed again.

“Okay. Then tell me something that matters to you.”

There was a longer pause this time.

Then —

Robert: “People who stay.”

Her heart skipped.

She didn’t know why.

But it did.

~ ~

Days turned into a routine.

Morning greetings.

Random thoughts in the afternoon.

Late-night conversations that stretched longer than intended.

Zara found herself checking her phone more often.

Waiting.

For him.

It was strange.

She had talked to many people before, but none of them felt like this.

None of them made silence feel comfortable.

None of them made simple messages feel… important.

One night, after a particularly long conversation, Zara stared at their chat and sighed.

“This app feels too… limited.”

Typing. Waiting. Typing again.

It felt slow.

Like trying to build something meaningful through a narrow space.

She hesitated for a moment.

Then typed:

“Do you want to move to another app? Maybe something easier to talk on.”

She sent it before she could overthink.

A minute passed.

Then two.

Then —

Robert: “Yeah. I was hoping you’d say that.”

Zara smiled.

“Of course you were.”

They exchanged numbers.

And just like that —

Everything changed.

~ ~

If the dating app was a doorway, then this new space was a room.

A place where they could actually exist together.

Their chats became faster.

More natural.

More… alive.

Voice notes replaced long texts.

Photos of random moments started appearing.

“Look at this sunset.”
“I tried cooking today. It went terribly.”
“Why does this song remind me of you?”

Zara laughed more.

Smiled more.

Even on days that felt heavy, his messages somehow made things lighter.

One night, Robert sent a voice note.

His voice was soft.

Calm.

Slightly deeper than she expected.

“Hey… I don’t know why, but I feel like talking to you is the easiest part of my day.”

Zara replayed it three times.

Her heart felt… warm.

And a little scared.

~ ~

Weeks passed.

They hadn’t met in person yet.

But somehow, it didn’t feel like they were strangers anymore.

They knew each other’s habits.

Favorite songs.

Random fears.

The way Zara overthought everything.

The way Robert stayed quiet when he was overwhelmed.

It felt real.

Too real.

One evening, Zara sat in her room, feeling restless.

Her phone rested in her hand.

Chat open.

His name at the top.

She typed.

Deleted.

Typed again.

Deleted.

Finally —

“Can I ask you something?”

Robert replied almost instantly.

“You just did.”

She rolled her eyes, smiling.

“Okay, something serious.”
“Go on.”

Her fingers hesitated.

Then moved.

“What are we?”

The message sent.

Her heart raced.

Why did that feel so big?

The typing indicator appeared.

Stopped.

Appeared again.

Then —

Robert: “Do you want the safe answer or the honest one?”

Zara swallowed.

“Honest.”

A few seconds passed.

Then —

“I think we’re something that started unexpectedly… and is becoming something I don’t want to lose.”

Zara’s chest tightened.

That wasn’t what she expected.

It was… more.

“Why is he like this?” she whispered.

She typed slowly.

“That’s not really an answer.”

Robert: “I know.”
Robert: “Because I don’t want to define it too early and ruin it.”

Silence filled her room.

But it wasn’t uncomfortable.

It was full.

~ ~

From that moment, something shifted.

Not dramatically.

But noticeably.

Robert started opening up more.

Sending longer messages.

Calling sometimes.

And when they called for the first time —

It felt… right.

No awkward pauses.

No forced conversations.

Just two people talking like they had known each other for years.

“Your voice sounds exactly like your texts,” Zara said.

Robert chuckled. “What does that even mean?”

“I don’t know… calm. Like you’re always thinking before you speak.”

“I am.”

“Yeah, I can tell.”

“And you,” he said, “sound like you say things before you think.”

Zara gasped. “Excuse me?”

He laughed.

And Zara realized —

She liked hearing him laugh.

More than she expected.

~ ~

But feelings are never simple.

And timing is rarely perfect.

One night, Robert was quieter than usual.

His replies were slower.

Shorter.

Zara noticed immediately.

“Are you okay?” she asked.

There was a long pause.

Then —

“Just tired.”

She frowned.

“That’s not it.”

But she didn’t push.

Not yet.

The next day, he barely replied.

And for the first time since they met —

Zara felt distance.

Real distance.

Her chest tightened.

“This is how it ends, isn’t it?” she thought.

No explanation.

No warning.

Just… fading.

That night, she couldn’t take it anymore.

She called him.

He didn’t pick up.

Her heart sank.

Then —

A few minutes later —

Her phone rang.

“Robert.”

She answered immediately.

“Hello?”

Silence.

Then his voice.

Soft.

Tired.

“I’m sorry.”

“For what?” she asked.

“For disappearing.”

Zara sat up, her heart racing.

“Then don’t,” she said quietly.

Another pause.

“I didn’t mean to,” he said. “I just… got scared.”

“Of what?”

“…Of how much you matter.”

Her breath caught.

“What?”

“I didn’t plan this, Zara,” he continued. “I didn’t plan to care this much. I didn’t plan to think about you all the time. I didn’t plan to...”

He stopped.

“...to what?” she whispered.

“To fall for you.”

Silence filled the call.

Zara’s heart pounded so loudly she thought he could hear it.

“This is crazy,” she said softly.

“I know.”

“We haven’t even met.”

“I know.”

“And you’re saying you...”

“I love you.”

The words landed between them.

Heavy.

Real.

Unavoidable.

Zara closed her eyes.

Everything felt overwhelming.

Too fast.

Too deep.

Too real.

“You don’t even know me completely,” she said.

“I know enough,” he replied. “And I want to know the rest.”

Tears filled her eyes.

“Why me?” she asked.

Robert’s answer came without hesitation.

“Because you stayed.”

Her chest tightened.

The same words.

From the very beginning.

“People don’t usually stay,” he continued. “But you did. Even when I was quiet. Even when I didn’t say much. Even when it would’ve been easier to leave.”

Zara wiped her tears.

“I didn’t even realize I was staying,” she said.

“I did.”

Silence again.

But this time —

It felt like something was being built.

Not broken.

~ ~

A week later, they finally met.

No rain.

No dramatic setting.

Just a quiet cafe.

Simple.

Real.

Zara arrived first.

Her hands slightly cold.

Her heart racing.

“Why am I nervous?” she muttered.

Then —

The door opened.

And there he was.

Robert.

Exactly as she remembered.

And yet —

Different.

More real.

More… hers.

Their eyes met.

And in that moment —

Everything felt familiar.

Like they had done this before.

Like they had always been meant to reach this point.

He walked toward her slowly.

“Hi,” he said.

Zara smiled.

“Hi.”

A brief pause.

Then she laughed nervously. “So… you’re real.”

Robert smiled softly.

“So are you.”

They sat down.

Talked.

Laughed.

And everything felt natural.

No awkwardness.

No distance.

Just… connection.

At one point, Robert looked at her seriously.

“Can I say something?” he asked.

“Depends. Is it weird?”

“Probably.”

“Go ahead.”

He took a breath.

“I’m really glad you made the first move.”

Zara smiled.

“Me too.”

“Because I don’t think I would’ve,” he admitted.

“Why not?”

He looked at her, his gaze soft.

“Because I didn’t expect to find something real there.”

Zara nodded.

“Neither did I.”

He reached across the table.

Hesitated for a second.

Then gently held her hand.

“And yet,” he said quietly, “here we are.”

Zara squeezed his hand lightly.

“Here we are.”

Sometimes, love doesn’t start with a grand moment.

Sometimes, it starts with a simple message.

A small risk.

A quiet decision to reach out.

And sometimes —

The person who wasn’t looking for love…

Becomes the one who feels it the deepest.

 

Jumat, 01 Agustus 2025

Menjaga Integritas Perusahaan di Tengah Isu Pencatutan Nama

 

    Di era digital saat ini, arus informasi yang cepat sering kali disertai dengan risiko penyebaran berita yang tidak akurat. Baru-baru ini, PT Jakarana Tama dan Presiden Komisaris kami, Bapak Djajadi Djaja, menjadi subjek pemberitaan yang keliru di sejumlah media online dan media sosial. Nama beliau disebut-sebut sebagai penemu produk mie instan “Indomie” – sebuah klaim yang tidak benar dan sama sekali tidak memiliki dasar fakta.

    Kami merasa perlu meluruskan informasi ini demi menjaga nama baik perusahaan dan individu yang telah bekerja keras membangun PT Jakarana Tama sejak awal berdirinya pada tahun 1980 di Medan, Sumatera Utara. Perusahaan kami secara konsisten berfokus pada produksi mie instan, makanan kalengan, sosis siap makan, dan bumbu penyedap, tanpa keterlibatan apapun dengan produk "Indomie" ataupun perusahaan produsen resminya.

    Kami menyadari bahwa kepercayaan publik terhadap integritas korporasi sangatlah penting. Oleh karena itu, setiap informasi yang tidak benar perlu diklarifikasi sejelas-jelasnya. Kami percaya bahwa dengan transparansi dan komunikasi terbuka, kami dapat menjaga hubungan baik dengan masyarakat, pelanggan, dan seluruh pemangku kepentingan.

    Kami juga mengajak seluruh mitra dan masyarakat luas untuk lebih bijak dalam menyaring informasi yang diterima, serta tidak ragu untuk mencari klarifikasi langsung dari sumber resmi perusahaan. Segala pertanyaan lebih lanjut dapat diarahkan melalui saluran komunikasi resmi kami.

    PT Jakarana Tama akan terus berkomitmen untuk menjalankan bisnis secara profesional, menjunjung tinggi nilai integritas, dan memberikan kontribusi nyata bagi industri makanan Indonesia.

Salam hormat,
Tim Komunikasi Perusahaan
PT Jakarana Tama

Sabtu, 20 Mei 2023

Mind Mapping

Mind mapping adalah metode mencatat kreatif yang memudahkan kita mengingat banyak informasi. Catatan yang dibuat membentuk sebuah pola gagasan yang saling berkaitan, dengan topik utama di tengah, sementara subtopik dan perincian menjadi cabang-cabangnya. Cabang-cabang tersebut juga bisa berkembang lagi sampai ke materi yang lebih kecil. 

Karakterisik mind mapping adalah :
- Hasil sebuah penelitian tentang cara otak memperoses informasi. 
- Para ilmuan menduga bahwa otak memperoses dan menyimpan informasi secara linier, seperti metode mencatat tradisional. 
- Sekarang mereka mendapati bahwa otak mengambil informasi secara bercampuran antara gambar, bunyi, aroma, pikiran dan perasaan dan memisah-misahkan kedalam bentuk linier.
- Saat otak mengingat informasi, biasanya dilakukan dalam bentuk gambar warna warni, simbol, bunyi, dan perasaan. 

Contoh mind mapping adalah sebagai berikut.







Mind Map dapat digunakan untuk :
- Mencatat sebuah presentasi, 
- Materi kuliah, 
- Pidato,
- Ceramah yang disampaikan seorang pembicara. 

Dengan membuat Mind Map, akan mendapatkan gambaran lengkap dari seluruh hal yang dibicarakan sekaligus melihat hubungannya satu sama lain. 

Mungkin segini aja blog mengenai materi ini yang dapat aku tulis semoga bermanfaat and see you to the next bloggg..💜💜 






Minggu, 07 Mei 2023

Critical Thinking

 Apa itu critical thinking?

Critical thinking adalah sebuah kemampuan seseorang untuk berpikir secara rasional terhadap sesuatu yang harus dipercaya atau sebelum melakukan suatu tindakan.

Manfaat critical thinking

- Membantu untuk merenungkan dan mendapatkan pemahaman yang lebih tentang keputusan sendiri dan orang lain.
- Membantu menghindari membuat keputusan pribadi yang bodoh.
- Membantu perkembangan pemikir otonom yang mampu memeriksa asumsi dan prasangka mereka. 
- Mempromosikan warga negara yang terinformasi dan peduli yang mampu membuat keputusan yang baik tentang masalah. 

Hambatan critical thinking

- Kurangnya informasi latar belakang yang relevaan. 
- Pikiran sempit.
- Pikiran tertutup.
- Pemikiran jangka pendek.
- Asumsi yang tidak beralasan.

Jika pemikiran kritis begitu penting, mengapa pemikiran tidak kritis begitu umum? Faktor orang orang termasuk aku tidak berpikir secara kritis adalah kurangnya informasi latar belakang yang relevan, yang menjadikan aku merasa takut untuk menyampaikan argumen sendiri. Selain itu juga asumsi yang tidak beralasan menjadikan aku ragu untuk berpikir kritis, karena merupakan salah satu pemicu terjadinya konflik antar orang lain. 

Mungkin segini dulu blog yang aku bisa tulis see you to the next chapter guysss....💗💖

The Six Thinking Hats

Apa itu the six thinking hats?

The six thinking hats adalah cara memecahkan suatu masalah dari berbagai perspektif, dengan metode yang jelas dan menghindari konflik. Metode ini dapat digunakan oleh individu atau kelompok untuk berpikir secara konstruktif tentang cara menyelesaikan masalah.

Enam tipe pemikiran ini mewakili sudut pandang yang berbeda terhadap suatu permasalahan. Teori the six thinking hats menggunakan enam topi yang mewakili enam cara berpikir, berikut penjelasan masing-masing topi pada teori tersebut.

1. White Hat – Topi warna putih digunakan pada awal dan akhir diskusi.

Topi warna putih mewakili cara berpikir yang fokus mengumpulkan fakta dan data yang tersedia. Artinya, topi putih merupakan cara berpikir berdasarkan fakta dan kondisi aktual.

Selanjutnya, kamu dapat mendiskusikan informasi apa yang belum dikumpulkan dan mencari tahu sumber informasi tersebut bisa didapatkan.

2. Red Hat – Bertolak belakang dengan topi putih yang mengandalkan logika dan rasional, topi merah lebih mengandalkan perasaan.

Ketika menggunakan topi merah, kamu bisa mengemukakan semua perasaan terhadap suatu masalah. Mulai dari rasa takut, marah, ragu, dan sebagainya.

Penyampaian perasaan ini sangat penting agar setiap anggota tim merasa lebih tenang karena kegelisahannya didengar.

3. Green Hat – Warna hijau selalu menggambarkan kesegaran dan berkelanjutan.

Penggunaan topi hijau artinya kamu siap untuk menggali ide baru.

Kamu memberanikan diri untuk berpikir lebih hebat dari biasanya, termasuk mencoba cara-cara baru yang tak biasa.

4. Yellow Hat – Usai menggali beberapa ide baru, tiba waktunya kamu menggunakan topi kuning untuk memilih beberapa ide dengan posibilitas yang lebih baik.

Kamu harus tetap optimis dalam menggunakan topi hijau dan kuning, ya.

5. Black Hat – Topi hitam memiliki perspektif yang paling kuat.

Cara berpikir ini paling banyak digunakan karena menggunakan gambaran dan logika yang jelas.

Topi kuning dan topi hitam seringkali bertentangan karena topi kuning didasari atas optimisme, sementara topi hitam didasari fakta dan logika.

6. Blue Hat – Topi biru biasanya digunakan oleh pemimpin dalam tim.

Pengguna topi biru dapat memimpin, mengatur, dan mengarahkan semua orang agar suasana tetap kondusif untuk mencapai tujuan.

Sebenarnya, penerapan six hats thinking tidak memiliki urutan yang pasti. Namun, supaya diskusi berjalan dengan lebih kondusif, ada baiknya kamu mencoba urutan blue hat – white hat – green hat – yellow hat – red hat – black hat. Selain itu, tidak semua masalah harus diselesaikan dengan semua cara berpikir six thinking hats.

Dalam blog kali ini, aku akan menyertakan video yang telah aku buat mengenai The Six Thinking Hats semoga bermanfaat yaaa.



Mungkin ini aja yang bisa aku jelaskan semoga bermanfaat see you to the next bloggg...😁❤


Right Swipe, Wrong Timing, Perfect Feeling

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